Video coaching to help guide you in reclaiming your masculinity in personal and business life.

I get you, my brother. You are feeling a frustrated, angry, lost, alone and that society does not value you as a man. You are not alone. Your father perhaps was not around or never taught you the right lessons of manhood that you needed, and now you are like a rudderless ship moving through a dark ocean of man hate everywhere you turn. I am here to tell you, my friend, that you are NOT alone.

But how did we get here?


Over the last 50 years in America, women who chose to be "stay at home" mothers were more and more vilified. This denigration of female values, clear gender roles/responsibilities, and the strength of mothers began a new era in undervalued true feminine qualities. Then, after the onslaught of divorce during the ’80s, (the highest rates in history) young girls and boys started to see their stay at home mothers destroyed by a broken marriage, awful absent husbands and as kids, grew up with a lack of fatherly guidance. On top of these factors, women were forced to enter the workforce in huge numbers. While some were strong career-minded women, many strong women who loved being a mother, like my own mom, were resentful toward being forced out of the role of mother, and into the role of worker.

By the 1990’s many of the young men and women mentioned above had become adults, but still were living in deeply dysfunctional mindsets because they largely grew up without a father to give guidance. By the mid-1990’s a real resentment of men, male values, and masculinity became more and more prevalent and hated. Why? Because men represented, in their triggered minds, a father that left them behind.

Because there were so many angered and poorly treated children of that era, who had no guidance to define and manage their deeply ingrained past triggers for emotional agnst, the fourth and fifth wave feminism movements began. These hate filled initiatives disguised as a "girl power movement" or “quality for all” really had one goal, to eradicate masculinity of the past and to move toward a future of androgyny, a combination of masculine and feminine characteristics, usually used to describe characters or people who have no specific gender. In other words, to rid the world of real men and replace them with man-children who could be easily controlled by weak women. Meanwhile strong women were abandoned and became more conservative, quiet and fears retribution of the other women.


So now you can start to see why you are feeling like you do.

Because of mostly female taught classrooms (nearly 70%), female-run human resource departments, and toxic weak women with a vendetta who want to gain dominance over men, our society is in a crisis of terrifying proportions. 

While weak females and the men who fear them are spouting lies of “Toxic Masculinity,” “Mansplaining” and messages of hate toward strong men, powerful and strong women, who genuinely want strong men, are silenced.

Why did men lose their manhood?

Fear combined with a lack of guidance is the simplest way to describe our current problem for men like you and me who only want to be strong, confident and respected. We see how evil and insecure women destroy strong men in politics, corporations and in the home. We see or have felt how angry bitter divorced women take our money, and kids in a court system that most always favors women. Our anger grows as we feel less and less real leadership at work because men are being told to “calm down”, “be nice” and in general are guided to over customizing every aspect of themselves to cater to the complainers and whiners so those people “feel happy".

And believe me, I have been impacted too. After the death of my grandfather early in my life, the brutal murder of my grandmother, and my parent's deeply painful divorce, I too was forced to navigate the mess of a society lost. It took me two failed marriages with the wrong women to realize that the past had altered me as a man also. Only after I did the things I am teaching you in this membership site did I build great companies, become an even better father and finally married the strong woman I deserved. It took work to get here, and I had to reach to the many influential men in my life for guidance. Now you get the benefit of the same learning I have taught to many men like you in one-on-one coaching settings.


It’s no wonder you are feeling frustrated, angry, lost and alone. Instead of valuing you for the strong masculine man you are or can become, some in society want you to soften yourself so that you are easily controlled. Instead of equality, weak people want superiority over you, a real man.

But that is all about to change for you.

This membership you are about to join is dedicated to one thing, your manhood. In business and life, we need learning to become all were meant to be and now I have given up all my other businesses to dedicate myself to you and this learning 100%.

Learn more and join today by clicking below.

Remember men, we are born into strength. Nature is always a balance of the masculine and feminine without apology. You no longer need to apologize for your desire to become the man you always imagined.

You are not alone my brother. I and the other members of #LookUpMen will support your journey.


Join thousands of men just like you who are becoming better with this learning!


Todd Mitchem has been coaching men for many years for a fee of over seven thousand dollars for three months in order to gain his knowledge and insight.

Now, for a low annual fee of only $478 you will get access to the same powerful, engaging lessons from a trusted advisor. It’s like having your own personal coach when you need him.

This small investment makes a huge difference as Todd guides you through practical tools you can use immediately in both your personal and business life.

With LOOK UP MEN lessons you get the convenience of learning on your time schedule in the comfort of your own home or office.



Weekly Videos and UNLIMITED VIEWS!

Our member area is updated each week with new video lessons explicitly designed to offer solutions for your unique male challenges. Videos are honest, clear and packed with relevant action items so you can see the benefits immediately.

You never need to worry about missing out on content. Todd leaves all content up indefinitely so for your annual fee you can watch videos over and over.

Private Page

Also included in your membership is access to our exclusive Facebook private group page where you can engage with Todd directly, talk to other men and share your story in a judgment-free environment. Todd’s team carefully manages the content, so there are no haters, women, or people seeking to hurt you in your time of need.



Special Interviews

Starting n February 2019, Todd will be interviewing top men’s issues thought leaders from all over the world to help you be more true to your masculine self.


Your Questions Answered in Video

What’s better than having your own private personal and business life coach? Nothing. So as part of your membership, Todd will answer weekly member questions on video and upload to the site. Some days he recored multiple questions for your viewing so check back regularly.